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Sunday, March 25, 2012

All is well... So they say.

Well all is well with me. Thanks for everybody that called. I guess you guys really do read my blog lol. I had test galore. They tested my blood for lupus and took x-rays of my uterus to make sure nothing was wrong with that... and both test came back perfectly normal. There's one more test they think I should do but I decided to quit with it all. No more tests. I'm going to give the vagina a little time to rest. So I'm done with the idea of baby making for now. My focus is on getting through this wedding, buying a house, and my latest obsession.... LOCS!

I've decided to grow locs. I'm waiting until after October (well at least trying to wait) til the wedding is over. Locs seem to be a little unpredictable and I don't want my hair to hit an ugly stage just in time for wedding pics. Plus it'll give me time to research and find a loctician that I trust to cultivate my locs.

There's so many options with locs. Sisterlocs, palmrolling, latching, backcombing, etc... Yikes! Who knew. Well I've narrowed down the choices to a medium sized palm-rolled set and I'm soooooo EXCITED!. I just feel like it's time.  Plus, don't these just make you SWOON?
www.thirstyroots.com

IDK the original owner of this pic but I found it on Hair Definition

Loc Rocker
Ps. I'm changing the settings on the blog. So I hope you like it...

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

What many people don't know about me...

So I haven't been on here in a while  in eternity. Life has been happening and I haven't had time to blog about it. Besides things like hair haven't been seeming that important lately (I've had crazy growth but massive split ends and single strand knots. but I will give a hair update in a later post hopefully this week)

Anyway, this may surprise the very few people who know me that regularly check my blog. I just felt that it was necessary to talk about it. I think I feel so alone dealing with it but truth is, its quite common (well actually I'm only like 1% but when you think about how many people there are in the world., 1% is quite large) and the more I talk about it, the more I learn how common it really is...

What's this 1% you may ask... simply put, I am one of those girls, I though I'd never be. I'm the girl who has miscarriage after miscarriage with no real reason. So far, I've experienced 3. I'm a recurrent miscarriage-r. I am officially considered high risk and now have to undergo a shitload of invasive testing. My whoo-ha has never seen so much action. (Side note, I think gynecologists should have to serve you dinner, but i'll hit on that in another post)  FUN TIMES!! When I was younger I always said I never wanted to have kids but as I etched closer to 30, I realized I was wrong but now it's not as easy I as I once thought it could be. Biology and health class made it seem so simple. I think people take for granted that for most, it's easy to get pregnant, and easy to carry a baby to term but not for people like me.

Even more surprising to many is that my last miscarriage occurred in December after no heart beat was detected during an ultrasound. My D&C was scheduled on December 9... the same day my sister ended up going into labor. I don't even think she knows. I went in for the procedure at 9am. Zonked out on pain meds until 11pm, then went to the hospital to welcome the birth of my niece. Creepy right!? Nobody knew but my fiance, a couple of my close friends, and my mom (and people say I can't keep a secret lol). Anyway I thought I use my blog to educate people on miscarriages so that they don't feel sooo alone like I did. But I'll also still talk about hair, funny stuff and random goings on.

For those of you who are like "what the hell is a D&C?" You gon' learn today... Read below and until next time Peace, Love, and Healthy Babies...

According to the American Pregnancy Association...




D&C, also known as dilation and curettage, is a surgical procedure often performed after a first trimester miscarriage. Dilation means to open up the cervix; curettage means to remove the contents of the uterus. Curettage may be performed by scraping the uterine wall with a curette instrument or by a suction curettage (also called vacuum aspiration), using a vacuum-type instrument.

Is a D&C necessary after a miscarriage?

About 50% of women who miscarry do not undergo a D&C procedure. Women can safely miscarry on their own, with few problems in pregnancies that end before 10 weeks. After 10 weeks, the miscarriage is more likely to be incomplete, requiring a D&C procedure to be performed. Choosing whether to miscarry naturally (called expectant management) or to have a D&C procedure is often a personal choice, best decided after talking with your health care provider.
Some women feel comfort in going through a miscarriage in their own home, trusting their own body to do what it needs to. Some see this as a vital part of the healing process, eliminating the question of “what if?” about the health of the pregnancy. There are also many women who miscarry who have a history of gynecological problems and don’t want to risk the possibility of any more complications occurring from having a D&C procedure done. For most first trimester miscarriages, expectant management should be a viable option.
For some women, the emotional toll of waiting to miscarry naturally is just too unpredictable and too much to handle in an already challenging time. Healing for them may only start once the D&C procedure is done. A D&C may be recommended for women who miscarry later than 10-12 weeks, have had any type of complications, or have any medical conditions in which emergency care could be needed.

How is a D&C procedure done?

A D&C procedure may be done as an outpatient or inpatient procedure in a hospital or other type of surgical center. A sedative is usually given first to help you relax. Most often, general anesthesia is used, but IV anesthesia or paracervical anesthesia may also be used. You should be prepared to have someone drive you home after the procedure if general or IV anesthesia is used.
    1) You may receive antibiotics intravenously or orally to help prevent infection.
    2) The cervix is examined to evaluate if it is open or not. If the cervix is closed, dilators (narrow instruments in varying sizes) will be inserted to open the cervix to allow the surgical instruments to pass through. A speculum will be placed to keep the cervix open.
    3) The vacuum aspiration (also called suction curettage) procedure uses a plastic cannula (a flexible tube) attached to a suction device to remove the contents of the uterus. The cannula is approximately the diameter in millimeters as the number of weeks gestation the pregnancy is. For example, a 7mm cannula would be used for a pregnancy that is 7 weeks gestation. The use of a curette (sharp edged loop) to scrape the lining of the uterus may also be used, but is often not necessary.
    4) The tissue removed during the procedure may be sent off to the pathology lab for testing.
    5) Once the health care provider has seen that the uterus has firmed up and that the bleeding has stopped or is minimal, the speculum will be removed and you will be sent to recovery.

What are the possible risks and complications of a D&C procedure?

  • Risks associated with anesthesia such as adverse reaction to medication and breathing problems
  • Hemorrhage or heavy bleeding
  • Infection in the uterus or other pelvic organs
  • Perforation or puncture to the uterus
  • Laceration or weakening of the cervix
  • Scarring of the uterus or cervix, which may require further treatment
  • Incomplete procedure which requires another procedure to be performed

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Excuse me while I crack the hell up!

I love this guy! From the double dream hands to the double dream feet... He can do no wrong in my eyes... unless of course... let's just say i wouldn't let him babysit my kids... ENJOY



Sunday, May 1, 2011

I owe you some pictures...

  Lots of stuff going on in the past couple weeks.  I've cut my hair for the last time until next August (not counting necessary trims) and I'm happy to say I'm all curly!! I just need my length back so I've dedicated myself to protective styling for the next year. The goal is to have super big, at least shoulder length hair by the time of the wedding next August. I'm not super hung up on length but shoulder length is where I'm most comfortable because I'm addicted to my pony tail/puff.

So what I've been doing lately is my beloved twists and then an all out twist-out fro for special occasions. Nothing more, nothing less. Minimal manipulation. Only detangle on wash days (with my detangler) which is usually no more than once/month. Still haven't used any heat. Actually this month will be my one year anniversary of being heat free. TIME FLIES!

Also still sticking to my all natural routine (within reason). I now co-wash with Yes! To Carrots, and deep condition with Shea Moisture Deep Treatment Mask and Huetiful Hair Steamer, moisturize by spraying with a mix of vegetable glycerin and Aloe Vera, then seal with a coat of Shea and Cocoa butter.

Ps. Check the last picture for my fro (with head band) and newest tattoo (RIP Evelyn)... It's not super clear in the picture but I'll be sure to post more pictures when it's done healing.








Until next time... peace, love, and northstar burgers

Dear Gravity,

As I inch closer and closer to 21 (+3+2+1), I've noticed that your dirty little hands are clenching to my breast! LET THEM GO! 
thatisall...

Friday, March 25, 2011

Match made in heaven...

Swoonin'... thatisall

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

The Elusive Dress

So to be completely funky about it all... I hate wedding dresses! Well... maybe not all wedding dresses but I have never sat at a wedding and wanted to wear the bride's dress. Don't get me wrong every bride I have seen has looked beautiful in their own right but I just have never pictured myself in a ballroom/princess gown. While searching the internet for inspiration I found these *cue the music, I'm in LOVE*

Art Deco style wedding dresses from Yolan Cris 2011 Revival Vintage collection - Almeria
I LOVE this dress!! I WANT this dress!! I NEED this dress!!

or how about this one, I think my heart just stopped!
Yolan Cris 2011 wedding dresses from Revival Vintage bridal collection - Copenhague gown

Or this one...

Yolan Cris wedding dresses 2011 Revival Vintage bridal collection - Roma

Ugh! I need to grow at least 5 more inches, lose about 5-10 lbs, and find some big money... FAST!!


Until then, Peace, Love, and Lace...